Paren­ting in a new count­ry can be chal­len­ging – and it’s okay

Multicultural parenting group offers support

Moving to a new count­ry is always a big life chan­ge and it affects the who­le fami­ly.

Accor­ding to The Fami­ly Fede­ra­tion of Fin­land, the problems with fami­ly circums­tances are tied to inte­gra­tion and vice ver­sa: the pos­sible problems with inte­gra­ting to a new count­ry might reflect on paren­ting and fami­lies.

It’s crucial that fami­lies have sup­port in the chan­ging life situa­tions.

It’s crucial that fami­lies have sup­port in the chan­ging life situa­tions.

Inter­na­tio­nal House Joen­suu helps immi­grants with ques­tions rela­ted to sett­ling in and inte­gra­tion. Many clients have fami­lies and ques­tions about fami­ly life in Fin­land. Fami­lies might struggle fin­ding their way of paren­ting between dif­fe­rent cul­tu­res.

For many the Fin­nish cli­ma­te and chan­ging sea­sons are a stran­ge thing and newco­mers might won­der how to dress a child pro­per­ly for day-care for each sea­son and whet­her it real­ly is a com­mon thing to let your baby sleep out­si­de.

Also in the Fin­nish rat­her indi­vi­dua­lis­tic cul­tu­re, the­re are many things that might seem a litt­le stran­ge and stir up a discus­sion amongst parents, like the ear­ly inde­pen­dency of the children com­pa­red to many other cul­tu­res.

Mul­ticul­tu­ral paren­ting groups have been popu­lar

Inter­na­tio­nal House Joen­suu has been deve­lo­ping ser­vices for immi­grant fami­lies to help with their inte­gra­tion. In city of Oulu they’ve orga­nized mul­ticul­tu­ral paren­ting groups and the same acti­vi­ty has now been launc­hed in Joen­suu.

The idea is to offer immi­grant fami­lies a safe place to discuss topics in their own lan­gua­ge. Topics such as how to sup­port the child’s bilin­gua­lism and the for­ma­tion of the child’s cul­tu­ral iden­ti­ty, how to pro­tect children from the risks of the Inter­net and what kind of sup­port and ser­vices the city of Joen­suu offers for fami­lies.

– It´s also a great way to get to know other parents in the same situa­tions and find peer sup­port, says Pro­ject Coor­di­na­tor Hen­ni Pek­ka­ri­nen from Inter­na­tio­nal House Joen­suu.

In Joen­suu the­re have been two Ara­bic groups so far. In the futu­re, the aim is to arran­ge paren­ting groups in other lan­gua­ges too.

The Mul­ticul­tu­ral Paren­ting group has been popu­lar among the immi­grant fami­lies and there’s a need for acti­vi­ties like this.

– The Mul­ticul­tu­ral Paren­ting group has been popu­lar among the immi­grant fami­lies and there’s a need for acti­vi­ties like this. It’s been great to see, how we have mana­ged to crea­te a safe place for parents to discuss parent­hood with other parents, says groups advi­sor in char­ge and inte­gra­tion advi­sor Kai­su Pylk­kä­nen (also in the pic­tu­re) from Inter­na­tio­nal House Joen­suu.

The group has gai­ned posi­ti­ve feed­back from the par­tici­pants, and they’ve said they hope eve­ry immi­grant fami­ly could attend.

Pylk­kä­nen has also got­ten fami­liar with a wor­king met­hod cal­led Per­he yhte­näi­sek­si (“Make fami­lies who­le”), which offers pre­ven­ta­ti­ve sup­port for refu­gee fami­lies. With the­se met­hods they’ve had great results at the immi­grant ser­vices of city of Oulu: the child wel­fa­re cases drop­ped around 50 percent and need for fami­ly work 75 percent.

Other inte­gra­tion advi­sors at Inter­na­tio­nal House Joen­suu have also been trai­ning to use various met­hods to sup­port fami­lies and put the met­hods to use in the inte­gra­tion work.

Fami­ly School orga­nizes free time acti­vi­ties for the immi­grant fami­lies

Schools have also a big role in inte­gra­tion as an inc­rea­sing num­ber of pupils will be from dif­fe­rent cul­tu­ral background. In Joen­suu, the Fami­ly School orga­nizes free time acti­vi­ties for the immi­grant fami­lies whe­re fami­lies can get to know each other and learn about the new city and Fin­nish cul­tu­re, find hob­bies for children. It’s a great way to sup­port the com­mu­nica­tion between school and fami­lies and help them with inte­gra­tion.

City of Joen­suu is wor­king towards beco­ming an even more child friend­ly city at UNICEF-sup­por­ted Child Friend­ly Cities Ini­tia­ti­ve. Deve­lo­ping ser­vices for immi­grant fami­lies also cont­ri­bu­tes on achie­ving the goal to make sure that children’s voice will be heard and con­si­de­red in the city ser­vices.

As we are welco­ming immi­grants to sett­le in Joen­suu, we must make sure that we also to have ser­vices for them and help the who­le fami­ly to feel welco­me and have sup­port in the process.

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